About Natalie

Natalie Vartanian, CPCC, ACC, is a certified life coach, talented writer, speaker, workshop facilitator and an expert when it comes to sex and relationships. She knows it’s possible to have amazing love in an unconventional way. She works with individuals and couples to build better relationships and help them amplify the communication and intimacy, which always results in better sex. She has also worked in organizations such as Google to develop personal development curriculum and present around the importance of designing relationships in the classroom to educators, as well as personal leadership for education outreach professionals. Her work has been featured in Forbes.com, Good Men Project and Your Life Your Way.

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Ask The SEXpert: Is he not attracted to me?

Question: Hi. I recently hooked up with a guy, we have known each other for about 6/7 weeks, and there has been major flirting and sexual chemistry. Anyway we finally hooked up however when he would go to penetrate he would lose some firmness of his erection. Why would this be? Is it because he […]

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Let’s talk Role Playing

This week’s Blog Post written by an amazing drama therapist, and super sexy sweetheart, Alexis Maron. Children do it naturally…..move fluidly from fantasy to reality, trying on and playing out different roles. It is so effortless for them as they play at being the princess or the little pony or the hero who saves the […]

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Ask The SEXpert: When is too much too much?

Question: I have been seeing a few different men… three now, that I am having sex with. And a few I talk to online.  None want a commitment, but I really need the attention I guess. I don’t LOVE any of them, in fact, one of them drives me crazy but our sex is amazing… […]

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Know Your Worth!

Ladies, this one is for you! Gonna try to keep this short and sweet. Stop undervaluing yourself! Know your Worth! Especially when it comes to love and dating. Time and time again I see amazing, beautiful, smart powerful women reduced to insecure, hopeless, desperate heaps because a certain guy did not want to be with […]

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Ask The SEXpert: Letting Go of the Past

This week’s Ask The SEXpert is being answered by an expert on breakups, in my opinion … Miss Sally Hope. Question: How about a primer on letting a past romantic partner go? Response: A: The best way to let anything go is to allow yourself to feel exactly what you’re feeling. A lot of times, […]

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Mark of a Good Relationship

Call me a hopeless romantic, or somewhat old fashioned, but I always envisioned myself in the type of relationship where I feel like I am floating on cloud 9. Not that I had an example of that growing up, but deep down, I was positive that this is what I wanted!     What I […]

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Ask The SEXpert: Am I ready to move on?

Question: Have I fallen out of love? Am I in love? Am i just used to being with him? Am I ready to move on? What are some questions I need to ask myself? Response: I am really glad you are looking at this from the perspective of things to ask yourself and not making […]

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Autopsies for Relationships

I was in a serious relationship with someone in my late 20s. I’m talking engaged serious. We were together for two and a half years. He was also the first guy I was involved with long term. Up until him my usual relationships lasted one to two months. I had no clue what I wanted […]

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