As you probably know from my post in March of 2016, after a year and a half of being in romantic relationship with Bob, building a life and business together, we decided to consciously uncouple, aka break up. If you have not watched that video, you can do that HERE. The hope was that we would experience freedom and expansion […]
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Video: Breakups are Tough
Regardless of it is amicable or not, if you were the one to end it or not, feelings come up. It’s a loss. A chapter of your life has ended. There is grief to feel there. Yes, this too shall pass. But in these moments that thought does not give much solace. Feels like a […]
Believing in Magic … Especially After Heartbreak
I have had the latest Coldplay song Magic literally on repeat the last few days. For those of you who have not heard it, take a moment and do so now. Don’t worry, I’m not going anywhere. I can wait. (Twiddling thumbs oh so patiently) Just to cover all of the bases I am also […]
Going, going, back, back, to Celibacy, Celibacy
I was thinking that when I came back to Southern California I would be in hog heaven when it came to my sex life. I envisioned feeling carefree and enjoying myself and my body again. But actually the complete opposite has been true. It baffled me at first. I couldn’t understand why. But when I […]
The Truth About Heartbreaks
The flavor of my life as of late has been annoyed or frustrated. With everything. Even after talking to a dear friend of mine and knowing she was trying to help, I was for some reason even more agitated. I know she meant well. She reminded me of how it takes 1-2 years to acclimate […]
Autopsies for Relationships
I was in a serious relationship with someone in my late 20s. I’m talking engaged serious. We were together for two and a half years. He was also the first guy I was involved with long term. Up until him my usual relationships lasted one to two months. I had no clue what I wanted […]
