Time to expose one of the biggest seduction and attraction killers: expectations. To figure out what your expectations are, you need to look in and not out. The definition of an expectation is: “A strong belief that something will happen or be the case in the future.” Let’s say for example wanting the person we […]
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The Unexpected Perks of Exploring an Open Relationship
I had been intrigued and fascinated by open relationships for a number of years, even if it was wondering if I would ever find a partner who was down for having a threesome every once in a blue moon or being cool with me hooking up with girls from time to time. The thought was […]
Old Fashioned? Yes. Hopeless? Never!
Considering the fact that I have had my heart broken 3 times … 3 intense and strong times, you would think I should be done with love. But I’m not. Nowhere near done. Actually I think I believe in love more now than I ever have before. I tear up when any of the people […]
Most Love Advice is Crap
I repeat: Most love advice out there is absolute garbage. If I read or overhear a “one size fits all’ prescription when it comes to love or dating one more time, I swear I am going to throw my laptop across the room. Okay, not really. A) This MacBook was not cheap and (B) Dramatic outbursts […]
Comfort. Who needs it?!
My heart was pounding so hard. At certain points, I could literally hear it beating. The bump, bump, bump in my chest was almost painful. I thought to myself, “This is too hard. I don’t know if I can go through with this. I could hang up soon and he won’t know the difference anyway.” […]
It’s Not About Love
I am a bit obsessed with figuring relationships out. Probably a good thing considering my chosen field right? Growing up in a household where my mom and dad (in my humble opinion) should have never been married, had me questioning love, marriage and relationships for as long as I can remember. What is the secret […]
Ask The SEXpert: Moving through Paralyzing Upset
Question: As a relationship-focused coach myself, I have my own opinions on what I’m dealing with, but I’d like to get your opinion. My girlfriend and I get along fantastically. We rarely fight, and when we do we look at it as a chance to figure out how to be better partners. However, sometimes she’ll […]
Ask the SEXpert: How do I bring up that I am a virgin?
Since this week’s post was a string of emails, as opposed to a straight Question and Answer, I will be sharing it below in an Interview style for your reading pleasure: BT: “I am a guy interested in knowing what you think about my situation. I am 24 years old and I am a […]
