A while back I dug up a poem from December of 2006. I wrote this piece when I first started making one of the most poignant connections in regards to relationships. “The sexiest thing is trust.” For what are the chances of finding someone, Who you can trust with your mind, body and soul? That […]
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Ask The SEXpert: Is he not attracted to me?
Question: Hi. I recently hooked up with a guy, we have known each other for about 6/7 weeks, and there has been major flirting and sexual chemistry. Anyway we finally hooked up however when he would go to penetrate he would lose some firmness of his erection. Why would this be? Is it because he […]
Autopsies for Relationships
I was in a serious relationship with someone in my late 20s. I’m talking engaged serious. We were together for two and a half years. He was also the first guy I was involved with long term. Up until him my usual relationships lasted one to two months. I had no clue what I wanted […]
Ask The SEXpert: What is too little sex for 4 years?
Question: How much sex is too little for a couple that has been together for 4 years? Response: Relationships, like anything in life, go through an ebb and flow. Nothing in life is constant. It goes up and down, side to side, backwards and forwards. Given that … your sex life is going to change […]
Ask The SEXpert: Trust After Infidelity
Question: How do you learn to trust your partner after an infidelity ? Response: This is such an important question and I know many people struggle with this. Thank you for sharing! I know it took some courage and vulnerability on your part. First off, ask yourself the question “Am I willing to truly forgive […]
Getting OFF the Crazy Train
Does the following scenario sound familiar at all? You are out with your friends at a bar and you see this guy who you think is beyond hot. I mean, ridiculously attractive and you find yourself wanting to go over and make out with him right then and there. By the grace of god you […]
Ask The SEXpert: My Guy is a TERRIBLE Kisser
Question: I need your help!! This guy I am dating is super awesome. Our talk went great. Still don’t know if we’re a great fit, but I’m super happy we did it and it’s been awesome. BUT…he’s a TERRIBLE kisser. OMG. Like I totally want to avoid him because of it. And I’d really like […]
Radical Honesty is the New Normal
As I was walking along the water in Seal Beach, I felt so unbelievably aware of the color of the water, the birds, the calming murmur of the tide rolling in. As I sit here watching the waves and being appreciative of the moment, the first words that pop into mind are “Radical Honesty […]
