In today’s episode, we talk about skillful violation. I know what you’re thinking … what is that? And it sounds beyond wrong! Especially given everything we are unveiling around sexual misconduct and trauma. However by the end of this podcast conversation I was sold. There is so much to consider in our conversations and this […]
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Episode 4 – The Vulnerability of Wanting and Desire
In this solo episode, I share with you the interesting dynamic of wanting and turn on being just as vulnerable as taboo. That the mere act of wanting has us want to hide and shut down desire. It’s a fascinating topic and also a place for us to bring awareness and intentionally untangle from in order […]
Video: Worth the Wait
In this video, I talk about the concept of your dream relationship being ‘Worth the Wait!’ I realize there are so many of us that are impatient and sad and lonely and frustrated … wondering when the HELL is it going to happen for me already. I know that I sure as hell was there […]
What Turns Guys ON?
Ladies … thought I would do a bit of myth busting for y’all. I know this is something we women ponder all the damn time: “What turns guys on? Is it looks, smarts, personality? What?!?” So instead of getting all coachy on you this time, I decided to take a mini survey of the guys […]
Mark of a Good Relationship
Call me a hopeless romantic, or somewhat old fashioned, but I always envisioned myself in the type of relationship where I feel like I am floating on cloud 9. Not that I had an example of that growing up, but deep down, I was positive that this is what I wanted! What I […]
Ask The SEXpert: My Guy is a TERRIBLE Kisser
Question: I need your help!! This guy I am dating is super awesome. Our talk went great. Still don’t know if we’re a great fit, but I’m super happy we did it and it’s been awesome. BUT…he’s a TERRIBLE kisser. OMG. Like I totally want to avoid him because of it. And I’d really like […]
Radical Honesty is the New Normal
As I was walking along the water in Seal Beach, I felt so unbelievably aware of the color of the water, the birds, the calming murmur of the tide rolling in. As I sit here watching the waves and being appreciative of the moment, the first words that pop into mind are “Radical Honesty […]
Clearly and Intentionally Casual
While I was out running an errand yesterday afternoon, I noticed a good looking guy on break from work. In that moment my intention was for him to notice me back, strongly, and then to approach me. Did it work? Him flagging me down before I drive off to ask me out answers that. The […]
