Question: After all the fighting and breaking up and making up and both of us having other lovers the last three years, it has taken a toll on my sex drive. Like it has died and I don’t know how to rekindle that. It’s so heartbreaking to have this beautiful passion gone. It’s caused a […]
Take it from a Unicorn
I feel like I have experienced a revelation when it comes to dating. One of the guys I have been seeing casually the last few weeks has blown my mind a bit. We want the same thing, purely light and casual, so it makes it way easier to be present when you know you are […]
Ask The SEXpert: What is too little sex for 4 years?
Question: How much sex is too little for a couple that has been together for 4 years? Response: Relationships, like anything in life, go through an ebb and flow. Nothing in life is constant. It goes up and down, side to side, backwards and forwards. Given that … your sex life is going to change […]
Limiting Beliefs and Love
One day recently, for no particular reason, I started feeling weepy and sad. It made no sense at all since everything was going really well. When I quieted down a bit and did some digging, the words that surfaced as faint as a whisper were “None of this is real or lasting, I don’t deserve […]
Ask The SEXpert: Trust After Infidelity
Question: How do you learn to trust your partner after an infidelity ? Response: This is such an important question and I know many people struggle with this. Thank you for sharing! I know it took some courage and vulnerability on your part. First off, ask yourself the question “Am I willing to truly forgive […]
Getting OFF the Crazy Train
Does the following scenario sound familiar at all? You are out with your friends at a bar and you see this guy who you think is beyond hot. I mean, ridiculously attractive and you find yourself wanting to go over and make out with him right then and there. By the grace of god you […]
Ask The SEXpert: My Guy is a TERRIBLE Kisser
Question: I need your help!! This guy I am dating is super awesome. Our talk went great. Still don’t know if we’re a great fit, but I’m super happy we did it and it’s been awesome. BUT…he’s a TERRIBLE kisser. OMG. Like I totally want to avoid him because of it. And I’d really like […]
Radical Honesty is the New Normal
As I was walking along the water in Seal Beach, I felt so unbelievably aware of the color of the water, the birds, the calming murmur of the tide rolling in. As I sit here watching the waves and being appreciative of the moment, the first words that pop into mind are “Radical Honesty […]
