Ask The SEXpert: Trust After Infidelity

Question: How do you learn to trust your partner after an infidelity ? Response: This is such an important question and I know many people struggle with this. Thank you for sharing! I know it took some courage and vulnerability on your part. First off, ask yourself the question “Am I willing to truly forgive […]

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Getting OFF the Crazy Train

Does the following scenario sound familiar at all? You are out with your friends at a bar and you see this guy who you think is beyond hot. I mean, ridiculously attractive and you find yourself wanting to go over and make out with him right then and there. By the grace of god you […]

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Ask The SEXpert: My Guy is a TERRIBLE Kisser

Question: I need your help!! This guy I am dating is super awesome. Our talk went great. Still don’t know if we’re a great fit, but I’m super happy we did it and it’s been awesome. BUT…he’s a TERRIBLE kisser. OMG. Like I totally want to avoid him because of it. And I’d really like […]

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Radical Honesty is the New Normal

  As I was walking along the water in Seal Beach, I felt so unbelievably aware of the color of the water, the birds, the calming murmur of the tide rolling in. As I sit here watching the waves and being appreciative of the moment, the first words that pop into mind are “Radical Honesty […]

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Clearly and Intentionally Casual

While I was out running an errand yesterday afternoon, I noticed a good looking guy on break from work. In that moment my intention was for him to notice me back, strongly, and then to approach me. Did it work? Him flagging me down before I drive off to ask me out answers that. The […]

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Passion: The Key Ingredient to Success

The following is a re-post from November 2010. As you are planning how to accomplish your goals for 2013 and beyond, I want you to keep in mind a commonly overlooked or misunderstood factor. This one thing could be the lynchpin to creating the life of your dreams! There is a saying in the business […]

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Sex Kittens and Love Cats

Whip it out … Your inner six kitten or love cat that is. For years, maybe even aeons (is that more than ages?), stereotypically guys have been seen as the sex crazy ones and women have been seen as the love crazy ones. I am not one to stereotype, however stereotypes come from somewhere right? […]

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Best Aphrodisiac? Loving Your Life

Happy 2013 everyone!! I got to thinking a lot about New Year’s resolutions the past few days. Facts are most people do not keep their resolutions. It is what it is. Not good or bad. Just is. I realized that SO much of what people resolve to do is to be, do or have different. […]

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