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In today’s episode, we talk about porn. Mostly from the angle of addiction and recovery as shared by someone that has been on that journey themselves as a teenager. I chose Vincent to have this conversation with because not only has he gone through it, but in some ways he is an advocate … in April of 2017 he chose Porn Addiction as his topic for a speech contest at his high school and shared about it to a group of 40 to 50 of his peers.
So in this conversation with Vincent, we cover the following topics and more:
- Starting to watch porn at 6 and not until age 16 realizing he was addicted
- His 9 months of recovery which culminated with meeting a girl and falling in love
- Motivation behind watching porn – wanting intimacy, connection, sexual expression, love
- The judgment that can come in from addiction and the gentleness required
- Confusion around dating and how to be with intimate partners because of what you expect from porn
- Insecurity that comes from always being the voyeur
- Perspective that develops of woman is just an object and the man shouldn’t be more than just a penis
Vincent also collected statistics and research around Porn Viewership and Addiction that you can access by clicking HERE.
Vincent is an adventurer, student of life, space holder and writer. He’s purpose is to express his passion leading to connection and aliveness. In the process, he hopes to spark others heart, mind body and soul to come into their fullest expression of them selves and feel alive and fulfilled.
He’s currently cultivating and chasing the dream to travel around the world and work to attain mastery in martial arts by hitchhiking from Belgium to China and learn Kungfu there, in a shaolin temple for 1 year.
To learn more about and connect with Vincent:
- Adventure Blog: http://kungfumyheart.com
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vincent_kungfumyheart/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vincent.vanagtmaal
If you are wanting to explore sex, sexuality, relationships, love, or any other topic help you live your most turned on life (even using Tarot to support in these areas), click HERE to learn more about ways you and I can work together.
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