About Natalie

Natalie Vartanian, CPCC, ACC, is a certified life coach, talented writer, speaker, workshop facilitator and an expert when it comes to sex and relationships. She knows it’s possible to have amazing love in an unconventional way. She works with individuals and couples to build better relationships and help them amplify the communication and intimacy, which always results in better sex. She has also worked in organizations such as Google to develop personal development curriculum and present around the importance of designing relationships in the classroom to educators, as well as personal leadership for education outreach professionals. Her work has been featured in Forbes.com, Good Men Project and Your Life Your Way.

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Clearly and Intentionally Casual

While I was out running an errand yesterday afternoon, I noticed a good looking guy on break from work. In that moment my intention was for him to notice me back, strongly, and then to approach me. Did it work? Him flagging me down before I drive off to ask me out answers that. The […]

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Passion: The Key Ingredient to Success

The following is a re-post from November 2010. As you are planning how to accomplish your goals for 2013 and beyond, I want you to keep in mind a commonly overlooked or misunderstood factor. This one thing could be the lynchpin to creating the life of your dreams! There is a saying in the business […]

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Sex Kittens and Love Cats

Whip it out … Your inner six kitten or love cat that is. For years, maybe even aeons (is that more than ages?), stereotypically guys have been seen as the sex crazy ones and women have been seen as the love crazy ones. I am not one to stereotype, however stereotypes come from somewhere right? […]

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Best Aphrodisiac? Loving Your Life

Happy 2013 everyone!! I got to thinking a lot about New Year’s resolutions the past few days. Facts are most people do not keep their resolutions. It is what it is. Not good or bad. Just is. I realized that SO much of what people resolve to do is to be, do or have different. […]

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The Message You Never Heard

One of the most unfortunate things I see is self doubt. At times, the doubt is so severe it mutates into self loathing. Maybe no one ever told you that you can be anything you want to be in this life. Maybe no one showed you love that was free of validation, approval, expectation and […]

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Let Go of the White Knuckles

Accept. Let Go. Surrender. Regardless of the words you choose to convey the action, releasing expectations will result in some surprising benefits. Regardless of the area of your life or the person, being able to be OKAY with what was, what is and what may be is the key to freedom and joy. Think about […]

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Put Your Money Where Your Mouth Is

The following is an abbreviated repost from March 2011, right after purchasing a ticket to Costa Rica. The plan was to live in Costa Rica for 5 weeks with a dear friend, Miss Sally Hope. As the year ends and resolution setting begins, I figured some personal encouragement would be timely!   WE DID IT! We bought our […]

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Baby Steps

    You can’t go from crawling to walking without baby steps. This analogy can be applied to pretty much anything, from training for a marathon to mastering a craft. Especially when it comes to dating and relationships. Take for example the person that has never had much experience in the dating world. They are […]

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