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Sex Agreements and Sobbing My Face Off

I recently had the most intense cry of my life and my partner was on the other end of the line the whole time.  I almost didn’t talk to him either because I was so hurt by something he had done. My first reaction was to push away from him and shut him out, which […]

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Is Sex and Tarot the new Peanut Butter and Chocolate?

Last night some crazy shit went down. So crazy I am still a bit speechless myself. Soaking it in slowly but surely. Have you ever had an experience of stumbling into a situation where you thought “How the hell did I get here?” but simultaneously felt like “This is a bit overwhelming but beyond amazing!” […]

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We’re ALL scared

Relationships cause you to open up in ways you never knew. Lesson upon lesson when connecting with another human being in such a deep and intimate way. Intimacy requires vulnerability and trust. You need to drop your guard and show a side of yourself that you may not want to show. It is a scary […]

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Comfort. Who needs it?!

My heart was pounding so hard. At certain points, I could literally hear it beating. The bump, bump, bump in my chest was almost painful. I thought to myself, “This is too hard. I don’t know if I can go through with this. I could hang up soon and he won’t know the difference anyway.” […]

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Healing the Hurt Around Love

The past week has personally been a doozie. I have been challenged, pushed and triggered in the love department in ways that made me so uncomfortable I wanted to crawl out of my skin and go hide somewhere. Here is the thing I am getting loud and clear. This is MY work that I have […]

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Let’s talk Role Playing

This week’s Blog Post written by an amazing drama therapist, and super sexy sweetheart, Alexis Maron. Children do it naturally…..move fluidly from fantasy to reality, trying on and playing out different roles. It is so effortless for them as they play at being the princess or the little pony or the hero who saves the […]

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Ask The SEXpert: When is too much too much?

Question: I have been seeing a few different men… three now, that I am having sex with. And a few I talk to online.  None want a commitment, but I really need the attention I guess. I don’t LOVE any of them, in fact, one of them drives me crazy but our sex is amazing… […]

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Ask The SEXpert: Letting Go of the Past

This week’s Ask The SEXpert is being answered by an expert on breakups, in my opinion … Miss Sally Hope. Question: How about a primer on letting a past romantic partner go? Response: A: The best way to let anything go is to allow yourself to feel exactly what you’re feeling. A lot of times, […]

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