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Video: Honoring Deep Desires and Breaking Up with Love [Our Story]

As most of you probably know, I have been in a romantic relationship with Bob Schwenkler for the past year and a half, building an incredible life together. Living together, creating a podcast together, growing a successful sex and relationship coaching business together, taking care of our cat-babies together…It’s been a blessing in so many […]

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Most Love Advice is Crap

I repeat: Most love advice out there is absolute garbage. If I read or overhear a “one size fits all’ prescription when it comes to love or dating one more time, I swear I am going to throw my laptop across the room. Okay, not really. A) This MacBook was not cheap and (B) Dramatic outbursts […]

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What do YOU want when it comes to love??

I am going to cut right to the chase … My mission is to open you up to possibilities so that you can have amazing love in an unconventional way, YOUR way. While most people open conversations with surface type dialogue, that is definitely not my bag. I go real deep and real honest, real […]

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Permission to be Selfish

The following is a repost from February 2011. We need to make sure we are number one priority. Always. Yet there is a lot of ‘stuff’ that comes up when we do not put other people first, especially through the lens of relationships. More often than not, we lose ourselves when in a partnership and […]

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It’s Not About Love

I am a bit obsessed with figuring relationships out. Probably a good thing considering my chosen field right? Growing up in a household where my mom and dad (in my humble opinion) should have never been married, had me questioning love, marriage and relationships for as long as I can remember. What is the secret […]

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Ask The SEXpert: When is too much too much?

Question: I have been seeing a few different men… three now, that I am having sex with. And a few I talk to online.  None want a commitment, but I really need the attention I guess. I don’t LOVE any of them, in fact, one of them drives me crazy but our sex is amazing… […]

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Autopsies for Relationships

I was in a serious relationship with someone in my late 20s. I’m talking engaged serious. We were together for two and a half years. He was also the first guy I was involved with long term. Up until him my usual relationships lasted one to two months. I had no clue what I wanted […]

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Ask The SEXpert: What is too little sex for 4 years?

Question: How much sex is too little for a couple that has been together for 4 years? Response: Relationships, like anything in life, go through an ebb and flow. Nothing in life is constant. It goes up and down, side to side, backwards and forwards. Given that … your sex life is going to change […]

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