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Ask The SEXpert: Are Girls Allowed to Approach Guys?

Question: I just stumbled upon your site and as I’m reading through the beautiful blog posts andI would just love to know…are girls ever allowed to ask a guy out? Like if I’m grocery shopping or getting takeaway and I see someone that I like am I allowed to approach them? Or am I messing […]

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Ask The SEXpert: Moving through Paralyzing Upset

Question: As a relationship-focused coach myself, I have my own opinions on what I’m dealing with, but I’d like to get your opinion. My girlfriend and I get along fantastically. We rarely fight, and when we do we look at it as a chance to figure out how to be better partners. However, sometimes she’ll […]

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Ask the SEXpert: How do I bring up that I am a virgin?

Since this week’s post was a string of emails, as opposed to a straight Question and Answer, I will be sharing it below in an Interview style for your reading pleasure:   BT: “I am a guy interested in knowing what you think about my situation.  I am 24 years old and I am a […]

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Ask The SEXpert: The Dating Category Dilemma

Question: I find that I put men in two categories when it comes to sexual rendezvous. Category one are the men I meet and decide they are more “hook up” material and therefore I have no qualms around when the hooking up takes place. Category two are the men I deem as possible relationship material […]

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Ask The SEXpert: Is he not attracted to me?

Question: Hi. I recently hooked up with a guy, we have known each other for about 6/7 weeks, and there has been major flirting and sexual chemistry. Anyway we finally hooked up however when he would go to penetrate he would lose some firmness of his erection. Why would this be? Is it because he […]

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Ask The SEXpert: When is too much too much?

Question: I have been seeing a few different men… three now, that I am having sex with. And a few I talk to online.  None want a commitment, but I really need the attention I guess. I don’t LOVE any of them, in fact, one of them drives me crazy but our sex is amazing… […]

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Ask The SEXpert: Letting Go of the Past

This week’s Ask The SEXpert is being answered by an expert on breakups, in my opinion … Miss Sally Hope. Question: How about a primer on letting a past romantic partner go? Response: A: The best way to let anything go is to allow yourself to feel exactly what you’re feeling. A lot of times, […]

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Ask The SEXpert: Am I ready to move on?

Question: Have I fallen out of love? Am I in love? Am i just used to being with him? Am I ready to move on? What are some questions I need to ask myself? Response: I am really glad you are looking at this from the perspective of things to ask yourself and not making […]

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