So I have never participated in a marathon, but I am pretty sure I am familiar with this “wall” they all talk about. Especially when it comes to love. You see three years ago, I got pretty up close and personal with that concept. Although I was not literally running a race, I was dating, […]
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Video: ‘Getting Back Out There’ when it comes to Love
How does one ‘get back out there’ when it comes to love, whether you have taken a hiatus, have not dated in a while or need a renewed attitude when it comes to dating?? I know it may seem daunting or challenging or hard … even at the thought. But what I want for you is […]
Handling Relationships When You Feel Like a Hot Mess
You know … we are fed a myth growing up about love and relationships that is so full of shit. It really does do us all a big disservice and sets us up for failure. This notion is that ‘Once you get into relationships all of your fears, worries, problems will go away.’ I’m here […]
Five Things I Learned from Helping Four Women Heal around their Love Lives in 8 Hours
As it is Valentine’s weekend I was thinking a lot about romance, relationships, love, dating, sex … you know, the usual in my world. Bob and I had a sweet weekend in San Diego – his friend had a birthday party but before that he coordinated the coolest couple’s dinner ever – four couples, super […]
Three Reasons Why the “Honeymoon Phase” is Absolute Bullshit
When I was single, I used to think the whole idea of the ‘honeymoon phase’ was depressing. You’re telling me that the spark, the love, the connection, the intimacy you feel at the beginning of a relationship wears off after a certain number of months? Thanks a lot for the inspiration! Makes me wanna rush […]
Broaching the Subject of Open Relationships
I was asked recently about the topic of how to broach the subject of an open-relationship with a new partner, and when should you bring that up? Combine that with my inquiry into the topic of my next post and voila … we are HERE! Before I get into that I want to talk a bit […]
Fast Track to Personal Hell (or Freedom)
I recently decided to read The Four Agreements (by Don Miguel Ruiz) again. This is probably my 4th or 5th time reading the book. There was a specific message I needed to remind myself of and I felt almost compelled to read it and STAT! This book changed my life when I first came across it (easily […]
Sex Agreements and Sobbing My Face Off
I recently had the most intense cry of my life and my partner was on the other end of the line the whole time. I almost didn’t talk to him either because I was so hurt by something he had done. My first reaction was to push away from him and shut him out, which […]
