Seduction, Fantasy, and BDSM Part 2 with Arden Leigh

At age 23 ARDEN LEIGH became a professional dominatrix in NYC. She is the founder of the Sirens Seduction Forum for Women and the author of The New Rules of Attraction: How To Get Him, Keep Him, and Make Him Beg For More (Sourcebooks, 2011). She currently works as a coach for women on developing a proactive approach to achieving their romantic goals, or put simply, a seduction coach.

As of this interview Arden is in the process of writing a memoir about her 4 years spent as a pro-domme and 24/7 lifestyle submissive (which we talk about in this episode!).

In This Conversation We Discuss:

  • How to go from playing video games alone in your mom’s basement covered in Cheeto Dust to starting a band, writing a book, changing the world and getting a lot of tail!
  • Why it’s important to let go of our sexual shame, stop settling for scraps, and start having exactly the kind of sex that we want.
  • From being broken up with via email to an all-night sensual, sexual group experience with her date and a group of strangers (or put bluntly, a gangbang).

Top 3 Quotes

  1. “At the end of the day are you bringing in the right kind of person who wants to live your fantasy with you?”
  2. “Shut up and eat your breakfast while I go down on you”
  3. “Anything that turns you on is a gift”

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Want to help bring the conversation around BDSM to more people? If you or anyone you know would like to help publish Arden’s future book on her 4 years as a Professional Dominatrix, please contact us and we will connect you to Arden!

 

Photo Credit: Isabel Dresler

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