In this video, we talk about this concept of self love and how that can show up in various ways. Loving yourself can feel ambiguous and confusing, however if you have tangible steps or things you can do to care for yourself, it becomes somewhat easier. My mission is to try to break down the […]
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You Can’t Fuck It Up in Love, Even if You Try!
Originally posted on elephant journal I have been feeling a lot of anxiety in the air lately—people feeling like they don’t know what’s going to happen with the person they are dating, or they are unsure if they should call/text/write someone they are interested in. I feel this anxiety swirling around me all of the […]
Handling Relationships When You Feel Like a Hot Mess
You know … we are fed a myth growing up about love and relationships that is so full of shit. It really does do us all a big disservice and sets us up for failure. This notion is that ‘Once you get into relationships all of your fears, worries, problems will go away.’ I’m here […]
Broaching the Subject of Open Relationships
I was asked recently about the topic of how to broach the subject of an open-relationship with a new partner, and when should you bring that up? Combine that with my inquiry into the topic of my next post and voila … we are HERE! Before I get into that I want to talk a bit […]
Fast Track to Personal Hell (or Freedom)
I recently decided to read The Four Agreements (by Don Miguel Ruiz) again. This is probably my 4th or 5th time reading the book. There was a specific message I needed to remind myself of and I felt almost compelled to read it and STAT! This book changed my life when I first came across it (easily […]
Sex Agreements and Sobbing My Face Off
I recently had the most intense cry of my life and my partner was on the other end of the line the whole time. I almost didn’t talk to him either because I was so hurt by something he had done. My first reaction was to push away from him and shut him out, which […]
Hang in There: Inspiration for your Heart
The first point of this PSA is to ‘hang in there’. Feeling so unbelievably blessed these days. Like I want to pinch myself and do happy dances all the time. I’m that person that is so on cloud 9 right now that you don’t know whether to vomit, tell me to shut up or sit […]
Why I Do What I Do
There is a virtual baton that is being passed around the blogging community at the moment and where normally I would not be one to jump on any bandwagon (yes, I am a rebel … or shall I say ‘unconventional’ at heart, always have been, always will be) … this felt different. When you get […]
