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French Sex and Sexual Expression with Cecile and Daniel

Daniel and Cecile are such a sweet, funny, and candid couple! They’re US transplants, originally from France who are currently following their dreams in LA: Daniel is becoming a professional stuntman(!) and Cecile is growing her decidedly non-corporate business as a Health & Wellness Coach and Sensuality Anthropologist.

Cecile’s Official Bio:

Cécile Charlot is a Health & Wellness Coach and Sensuality Anthropologist. She inspires women to harness the power of holistic health and explore what lights them up and turns them on. Her ultimate goal is to create an army of titillated, powerful, magical creatures and to take over the world. Total domination!

On her way to becoming a wellness revivalist, Cécile quit her corporate marketing job and ran away as fast as she possibly could. The only thing she will now willfully enslave herself to is pleasure. Let it be known.

She offers individual coaching sessions, group workshops and revolutionary online programs. With these, she guides women to [re-]establish a loving and pleasurable relationship with food, [re-]sensualize their body, life & decision making, and achieve ecstasy for life.

In This Conversation We Discuss:

  • What sex is like in France (and how it’s different than the US).
  • How men owning their primal sexual desire can be a huge turn on.
  • Getting back to passion despite distractions and life routine.
  • Sex as an expression and discovery of the individuals AND the relationship.

Top Quotes:

  • “In parks in France in the summer, in the bushes, there are people having sex all the time!”
  • “Your sexual energy doesn’t just stay in the bedroom. I think it emanates through everything that you do every day. The way you walk, the way you handle yourself in the street, the way you do things, the way you hold your body, the way you speak.”
  • “Where is the easy button for orgasms?”
  • “Consistency is great, it’s wonderful, but it has to be disrupted once in a while with a bit of craziness.”

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Removing the Veil From Sex with Lawrence Lanoff

LAWRENCE LANOFF, aka The Tantra Rebel, is a “rubber meets the road kind of teacher.” He has been applying this practical essence to his artistic and spiritual skills for over 20 years.

He has studied physics, yoga, spirituality, neuroscience, photography, meditation, magic, social biology, semiotics, advertising design, computer science, philosophy, anatomy, meta-physics, psychology, NLP, hypnosis, fine art, massage therapy, secret tantra, Taoism, film, television, art therapy, marketing and business communication. He even managed to work in a Doctorate in Cognitive Studies.

Lawrence coaches people in self awareness, flow, and connection to oneness, and helps them live enriched, sexually empowered, authentic lives.

In This Conversation We Discuss:

  • Being given his first tantra lesson by a tantra master at age 12.
  • How to create world peace by having sex more often.
  • How a single transcendental sexual experience changed his sex life forever.
  • Why it’s important to realize that even seemingly brilliant sexual teachings can still end up creating guilt, shame, and sexual disfunction.

Top 3 Quotes

  1. “What is the downside to feeling good and learning in positive ways, ways that feel good, and sharing those experiences with other people.”
  2. “One of the top misconceptions about sex is that pleasure is bad.”
  3. “Sex can be the most incredible sensory experience you’ve ever had.”

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Seduction, Fantasy, and BDSM Part 2 with Arden Leigh

At age 23 ARDEN LEIGH became a professional dominatrix in NYC. She is the founder of the Sirens Seduction Forum for Women and the author of The New Rules of Attraction: How To Get Him, Keep Him, and Make Him Beg For More (Sourcebooks, 2011). She currently works as a coach for women on developing a proactive approach to achieving their romantic goals, or put simply, a seduction coach.

As of this interview Arden is in the process of writing a memoir about her 4 years spent as a pro-domme and 24/7 lifestyle submissive (which we talk about in this episode!).

In This Conversation We Discuss:

  • How to go from playing video games alone in your mom’s basement covered in Cheeto Dust to starting a band, writing a book, changing the world and getting a lot of tail!
  • Why it’s important to let go of our sexual shame, stop settling for scraps, and start having exactly the kind of sex that we want.
  • From being broken up with via email to an all-night sensual, sexual group experience with her date and a group of strangers (or put bluntly, a gangbang).

Top 3 Quotes

  1. “At the end of the day are you bringing in the right kind of person who wants to live your fantasy with you?”
  2. “Shut up and eat your breakfast while I go down on you”
  3. “Anything that turns you on is a gift”

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Want to help bring the conversation around BDSM to more people? If you or anyone you know would like to help publish Arden’s future book on her 4 years as a Professional Dominatrix, please contact us and we will connect you to Arden!

 

Photo Credit: Isabel Dresler

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Seduction, Fantasy, and BDSM Part 1 with Arden Leigh

At age 23 ARDEN LEIGH became a professional dominatrix in NYC. She is the founder of the Sirens Seduction Forum for Women and the author of The New Rules of Attraction: How To Get Him, Keep Him, and Make Him Beg For More (Sourcebooks, 2011). She currently works as a coach for women on developing a proactive approach to achieving their romantic goals, or put simply, a seduction coach.

As of this interview Arden is in the process of writing a memoir about her 4 years spent as a pro-domme and 24/7 lifestyle submissive (which we talk about in this episode!).

In This Conversation We Discuss:

  • The kind of bliss that can come from pleasing and serving another person.
  • How living out your own stories and fantasies inspires and enables others to do the same.
  • Dreaming of a BDSM lifestyle from a young age: I Dream of Jeannie and Arabian Nights’ slave girls.

Top 3 Quotes

  1. “At the end of the day are you bringing in the right kind of person who wants to live your fantasy with you?”
  2. “Shut up and eat your breakfast while I go down on you”
  3. “Anything that turns you on is a gift”

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Want to help bring the conversation around BDSM to more people? If you or anyone you know would like to help publish Arden’s future book on her 4 years as a Professional Dominatrix, please contact us and we will connect you to Arden!

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Honesty and Desire with Rob Kandell

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ROB KANDELL has spent the last 10 years working with literally thousands of people on the charged topics of love, sex, and intimacy with the international company he co-founded, OneTaste.

Through his company, Kandell Consulting, he helps artists and visionaries, and thought leaders manifest their ideas by breaking them down into finite, minute steps so they can get out of their heads and start creating.

In this conversation we discuss:

  • Rob’s journey from being an arrogant, mysognistic, numb man to becoming cofounder of a $6 million dollar international company at the forefront of exploring human sexuality.
  • Why it’s so important to own your desires (WITHOUT feeling obligated to act on them).
  • Committing to honest communication with sex and relationship (this doesn’t mean you say every thought that crosses your mind).
  • How women’s sexual appetites consistently prove to be larger than men’s.
  • Why exploring and learning about your sexuality, intimacy, and your relationships is paramount to a healthy (sex) life.

Top 3 Quotes

  1. “Men are scared to death of women’s desires. And on some level they are smart to be. Because women’s desires are bigger, stronger, more powerful and electric than men.”
  2. “Give yourself permission to be inept. Give yourself permission to be a total spaz. Laugh at yourself! Laugh at your partner! Give yourself permission to explore what is inside of you.”
  3. “At OneTaste, slut was the highest form of compliment you can pay somebody. It means free expression.”

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Podcast Pillow Talk – Episode 1: Honesty and Desire with Rob Kandell

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Welcome to Sex the Podcast!

authenticity, connection, conversations, fun, honesty, intimacy, podcast, relationships, sex, sexuality, Slide, vulnerability

In this episode Natalie and I introduce ourselves and talk about why we created Sex the Podcast. We have had SO much fun creating this project!

Our intention for our relationship, for this project, and for you is to prove that talking about (and having!) sex doesn’t have to be so darn serious! It gets to be fun, funny, goofy, playful, expansive, and connecting. Every time all the time.

We’re really excited to introduce Sex the Podcast for you. Welcome to episode 0!

The first official episode of Sex the Podcast is launching April 6. Click here to subscribe on iTunes or sign up to your right to be the very first to know when it comes out.

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