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Going, going, back, back, to Celibacy, Celibacy

I was thinking that when I came back to Southern California I would be in hog heaven when it came to my sex life. I envisioned feeling carefree and enjoying myself and my body again. But actually the complete opposite has been true. It baffled me at first. I couldn’t understand why. But when I […]

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The Truth About Heartbreaks

The flavor of my life as of late has been annoyed or frustrated. With everything. Even after talking to a dear friend of mine and knowing she was trying to help, I was for some reason even more agitated. I know she meant well. She reminded me of how it takes 1-2 years to acclimate […]

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Ask the SEXpert: My Sex Drive has Died

Question: After all the fighting and breaking up and making up and both of us having other lovers the last three years, it has taken a toll on my sex drive. Like it has died and I don’t know how to rekindle that. It’s so heartbreaking to have this beautiful passion gone. It’s caused a […]

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