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Musings on Risk, Turn On, and Regret

You know what the biggest shame would be? Not fully living your life. Not putting yourself out there in fear of possibly getting hurt. Not being turned all the way on. Not going after the things that your heart is absolutely craving for. Is it scary? Sure! Hands down!! That’s why a lot of people are quite […]

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The Taboo of Sadness and Depression

Confession Time: I have been thinking a lot about transparency and how much is too much to share. Also, this notion where we don’t share our down days because we don’t want to be judged or perceived as weak. However the latest focus on suicide has me want to speak up even more around the […]

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Fasties and Slowies in Dating and Relationship

When it comes to dating and relationships I have found that there are usually two types of people. And these types of people are distinguished by their speed in relationships. Fasties and Slowies. I, for example, am a Fasty! Always have been. My pace when I meet someone I like is to go all in, […]

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Never Too Late (to do Prom at Age 39)

This past Saturday I went to prom, for the first time! Took me 20 years, but as they say “Better Late Than Never.”  I actually didn’t go to a single dance during high school. The decision was partly my moms to protect me from being the young one in a sea of older kids who could […]

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Rough vs Raw Sex (Blog Post)

The following is an excerpt from my upcoming book of Sexplorations. At the end of this piece, you can sign up to for the mailing list and get an advanced copy of the section on Threesomes! There was a bruise that was healing on the bottom right cheek of my derriere … the remnants of the […]

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Video: Compassion vs Criticism during Reflection

A little New Year’s video for you all … and for you readers, the loose transcript below. So last night was supposed to be a magical time for me to reflect, Vision, dream, acknowledge myself and my accomplishments. Yet all I did was go down the rabbit hole of self judgment. Like a harsh taskmaster […]

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The Struggle of Wanting to Share my Sex Stories

The following is a piece I free wrote as I was working through a profound writer’s block I was experiencing in the creation of my forthcoming book about Sex. Also, to get on the list and be the first to know when it releases, click HERE. ~~~~~ I’ll be honest. A part of me was, […]

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Video: Whose Voice is that Anyway?

This week I am coming to you from Nicaragua and we are tackling the concept of those pesky voices that tell you that you can’t or won’t or shouldn’t XYZ! A lot of times these are beliefs that we have inherited from society, religion, our parents, or our culture. It’s really powerful to be able […]

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