We have these beliefs, formed when we were kids, around how life and love works. We pick them up either from our parents, our teachers, our neighbors, family, friends, etc. We are sponges and conscious or not, the messages we receive growing up sink in and form our beliefs. A belief is an acceptance of […]
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Take Care of Your Man/Woman!
Take care of your man (or woman)! Regardless of your ‘status’ with each other. When you read the next couple of suggestions you may think they are solely applicable for dating (or in the very beginning stages of a relationship) but it is just as important when you are with a partner for the long or […]
Ask the SEXpert: How do I bring up that I am a virgin?
Since this week’s post was a string of emails, as opposed to a straight Question and Answer, I will be sharing it below in an Interview style for your reading pleasure: BT: “I am a guy interested in knowing what you think about my situation. I am 24 years old and I am a […]
What Turns Guys ON?
Ladies … thought I would do a bit of myth busting for y’all. I know this is something we women ponder all the damn time: “What turns guys on? Is it looks, smarts, personality? What?!?” So instead of getting all coachy on you this time, I decided to take a mini survey of the guys […]
Ask The SEXpert: The Dating Category Dilemma
Question: I find that I put men in two categories when it comes to sexual rendezvous. Category one are the men I meet and decide they are more “hook up” material and therefore I have no qualms around when the hooking up takes place. Category two are the men I deem as possible relationship material […]
The Sexiest Thing is Trust
A while back I dug up a poem from December of 2006. I wrote this piece when I first started making one of the most poignant connections in regards to relationships. “The sexiest thing is trust.” For what are the chances of finding someone, Who you can trust with your mind, body and soul? That […]
Let’s talk Role Playing
This week’s Blog Post written by an amazing drama therapist, and super sexy sweetheart, Alexis Maron. Children do it naturally…..move fluidly from fantasy to reality, trying on and playing out different roles. It is so effortless for them as they play at being the princess or the little pony or the hero who saves the […]
Ask The SEXpert: When is too much too much?
Question: I have been seeing a few different men… three now, that I am having sex with. And a few I talk to online. None want a commitment, but I really need the attention I guess. I don’t LOVE any of them, in fact, one of them drives me crazy but our sex is amazing… […]
