There is a fine line between dreaming up your ideal partner and living in the fantasy that they will be perfect and your relationship will be perfect. In this video, I talk about some of those distinctions and how to be powerful in your choices! *For video transcription, see below. I wanted to talk about […]
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Video: Breakups are Tough
Regardless of it is amicable or not, if you were the one to end it or not, feelings come up. It’s a loss. A chapter of your life has ended. There is grief to feel there. Yes, this too shall pass. But in these moments that thought does not give much solace. Feels like a […]
Video: Receiving is Just as Important as Giving
Why is receiving seen as such a negative thing? It can be seen as selfish, taking, needy, wrong, etc. Yet receiving is half of the equation for reciprocity – without a receiver, you can’t have a giver. In this video, I explore the receiving end of the equation. *For you readers, the transcription of the video […]
Video: The Fear of Being Imperfect or “Not Good Enough”
Something that has been coming up with my clients recently is this fear that if they show the side of them that is imperfect or not having all of their ‘shit’ together, they won’t get love, they will get left. It’s an epidemic that keeps us from the intimacy and love and acceptance we crave! […]
Video: Do You Get All ‘Gumby’ in Relationships?
Realizing I tend to make up phrases and sayings … this is no exception. After a chat with a dear friend recently, it came to my attention how I, and so many women I know, get all ‘flexi’ in relationships. Far too often I see women (myself included) stretch and flex and morph themselves in […]
Video: Standing Up for Yourself IS Self Love
In this video, we talk about this concept of self love and how that can show up in various ways. Loving yourself can feel ambiguous and confusing, however if you have tangible steps or things you can do to care for yourself, it becomes somewhat easier. My mission is to try to break down the […]
You Can’t Fuck It Up in Love, Even if You Try!
Originally posted on elephant journal I have been feeling a lot of anxiety in the air lately—people feeling like they don’t know what’s going to happen with the person they are dating, or they are unsure if they should call/text/write someone they are interested in. I feel this anxiety swirling around me all of the […]
Video: Seeing the Self-“Work” around Love as Self-Care
In this video, we talk about this concept of ‘doing the work’ when it comes to relationships and love. We get caught up in a place of feeling we have to do our work before we can ever be in relationship … or that the work is hard and painful. To me this work is […]
