Last night some crazy shit went down. So crazy I am still a bit speechless myself. Soaking it in slowly but surely. Have you ever had an experience of stumbling into a situation where you thought “How the hell did I get here?” but simultaneously felt like “This is a bit overwhelming but beyond amazing!” […]
Old Fashioned? Yes. Hopeless? Never!
Considering the fact that I have had my heart broken 3 times … 3 intense and strong times, you would think I should be done with love. But I’m not. Nowhere near done. Actually I think I believe in love more now than I ever have before. I tear up when any of the people […]
Why I Gave Online Dating it’s Pink Slip
How long would you say is a good amount of time to give something a go before you let it go? 1? 5? 10 years? How about 15? Well that is how long I have been online dating. 15 years. On and off of course, but it has been almost half of my life. Picture […]
Going, going, back, back, to Celibacy, Celibacy
I was thinking that when I came back to Southern California I would be in hog heaven when it came to my sex life. I envisioned feeling carefree and enjoying myself and my body again. But actually the complete opposite has been true. It baffled me at first. I couldn’t understand why. But when I […]
Who are you? No. Really.
Has the following ever happened to you when in a relationship? You lose yourself or forget who you are! You give up a lot of what you love. You are constantly bending and compromising. You go along with whatever your partner wants. You feel there is no room for your needs. You feel blindsided when […]
We’re ALL scared
Relationships cause you to open up in ways you never knew. Lesson upon lesson when connecting with another human being in such a deep and intimate way. Intimacy requires vulnerability and trust. You need to drop your guard and show a side of yourself that you may not want to show. It is a scary […]
We NEVER Fall for our Types
When I was 20 years old, I had gone to dinner with some friends and the topic of love, dating and relationships came up as it is want to do. Not really a surprise when that is what we think about all the time, whether we want to admit it or not. We think about love […]
Most Love Advice is Crap
I repeat: Most love advice out there is absolute garbage. If I read or overhear a “one size fits all’ prescription when it comes to love or dating one more time, I swear I am going to throw my laptop across the room. Okay, not really. A) This MacBook was not cheap and (B) Dramatic outbursts […]
