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Ask The SEXpert: The Dating Category Dilemma

Question: I find that I put men in two categories when it comes to sexual rendezvous. Category one are the men I meet and decide they are more “hook up” material and therefore I have no qualms around when the hooking up takes place. Category two are the men I deem as possible relationship material […]

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The Sexiest Thing is Trust

A while back I dug up a poem from December of 2006. I wrote this piece when I first started making one of the most poignant connections in regards to relationships. “The sexiest thing is trust.” For what are the chances of finding someone, Who you can trust with your mind, body and soul? That […]

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Ask The SEXpert: Is he not attracted to me?

Question: Hi. I recently hooked up with a guy, we have known each other for about 6/7 weeks, and there has been major flirting and sexual chemistry. Anyway we finally hooked up however when he would go to penetrate he would lose some firmness of his erection. Why would this be? Is it because he […]

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Let’s talk Role Playing

This week’s Blog Post written by an amazing drama therapist, and super sexy sweetheart, Alexis Maron. Children do it naturally…..move fluidly from fantasy to reality, trying on and playing out different roles. It is so effortless for them as they play at being the princess or the little pony or the hero who saves the […]

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Ask The SEXpert: When is too much too much?

Question: I have been seeing a few different men… three now, that I am having sex with. And a few I talk to online.  None want a commitment, but I really need the attention I guess. I don’t LOVE any of them, in fact, one of them drives me crazy but our sex is amazing… […]

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Know Your Worth!

Ladies, this one is for you! Gonna try to keep this short and sweet. Stop undervaluing yourself! Know your Worth! Especially when it comes to love and dating. Time and time again I see amazing, beautiful, smart powerful women reduced to insecure, hopeless, desperate heaps because a certain guy did not want to be with […]

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Ask The SEXpert: Letting Go of the Past

This week’s Ask The SEXpert is being answered by an expert on breakups, in my opinion … Miss Sally Hope. Question: How about a primer on letting a past romantic partner go? Response: A: The best way to let anything go is to allow yourself to feel exactly what you’re feeling. A lot of times, […]

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Mark of a Good Relationship

Call me a hopeless romantic, or somewhat old fashioned, but I always envisioned myself in the type of relationship where I feel like I am floating on cloud 9. Not that I had an example of that growing up, but deep down, I was positive that this is what I wanted!     What I […]

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